Tim Bistline on Self-care in Youth Ministry

I have been around for awhile in youth ministry... that either makes me steadfast and wise, or stupid and immature! Feel free to comment on that!

Sabbath rest has been an invaluable spiritual discipline in the last 10 years of ministry. It was something I had to learn the hard way; I almost sacrificed my marriage on the altar of ministry, but that is another blog for another time. I think it is critical to ask for/demand a "day off" in your ministry; a day to not do anything related to ministry for others. Take a day and get a project around the house done, or exercise, or read a fun book, or watch a great movie for the 10th time... a day to clear your head and soul... a day to let God's Spirit pour into you.

There is also time to take out of your ministry schedule to network with other youth leaders for the sake of building friendship, mentorship and accountability. I have several youth pastors that I stay connected with for the purpose of friendship; plus they completely understand what I am going through in ministry and the toll it sometimes takes on my family!

Finally, I would challenge you to take some personal time (not counted vacation time) when you return home from a retreat, mission trip, etc. When a big event is coming, there is "prep hours" to consider, hours while on the trip (remember that there are 24 hours in a day and you are in charge even when other are asleep), and there are the hours cleaning up from the event or hours cleaning and returning the rental vans. Add all those hours up and what do you get? Personal time, not vacation hours, etc. You have served others and your church leadership owes it to you to give you some sabbath rest. Need an advocate? I am happy to meet with any Senior pastor or leadership team who might needs some persuading.

Get some "rest" before the Fall schedule begins, and watch what God will do in and through you! Even God rested on the Sabbath... Peace

Tim Bistline