Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Do you know what they are "into"?

Many years ago, I was asked by a parent if I was aware of what the students in our ministry were "into"; what books, movies, magazines and music were they "into"? I wrestled with this question and wrestled with the fact that I may not have been as attentive as I perceived myself to be... and so, I started out on a life-long journey to intentionally become an observer and consumer of pop-culture. And it took me into some very dark places. But along the way, I had the help of one of the greatest youth workers I know. His insight and biblical perspective have kept me grounded and in-step with teens for all these years. Hopefully this is not a new resource for you, but if it is jump on the CPYU train now; it's never too late! The Center for Parent Youth Understanding lead by Walt Mueller will be an invaluable tab/bookmark for your favorite web sites. The Center is based in Elizabethtown, PA, but is recognized as the leader in teaching parents and youth workers about teen culture. Here is the link to their website... www.cpyu.org

You've got to get "into" what your students are "into" and then you can help them find a biblical worldview in all the mess that they are pouring into their lives. You may get shocked or offended along the way, but you will build trust and friendship with your students and they will eventually let you speak "into" their lives. Become informed and keep the criticism and judgment to a minimum, even when you are tempted to "lecture" them for the stuff that they are taking in to their minds. Stay calm, stay informed, and stay focused on the love that you and Jesus have for them! Get "into" their world, and they will let you "into" their lives; someday, you will get the chance to get Jesus "into" their world in a way that will change them forever. Be blessed!

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