Wednesday, March 14, 2012

my response to "very small youth group"

"Help, I have 2 high school girls and 3 middle school boys in my church. What do I do?"

This problem has the makings of a beautiful beginning to a youth ministry that will make an impact. You have the beginning of a small group ministry which is still the greatest, most effective way to reach kids with the story of faith and life. Depending on your gender, you find another leader of the same gender to meet with either the 2 girls or 3 boys; you meet with the other group. You begin your time together with a brief mixer/slash opening to your time together. (example... 15 minute opening to a Sunday school hour)

The high school girls will want to go deep into conversation about girl issues... high school issues... boy relationship issues... and you can help intersect those issues at the crossroads where life with Jesus as a follower and the world meet! middle school boys will want to go out into the yard and beat each other up (I think you know what I mean... that want action!) So, your intersection involves getting them to talk about life and faith with middle school stuff while action is occurring. Maybe there is an "odd job" around the church that needs done... check with your local church custodian! You have the "man-power"with some direction and guidance of course, and you can have a real-life/faith life discussion as the project is getting completed. Middle school boys love to eat; take them out for lunch after church for their efforts and finish the serious part of the discussion around the lunch table.

Be creative! Don't let the few numbers bog you down! Don't let space or the lack of resources burn you out and discourage you! You are on a mission with God to change the lives of teenagers and to help them experience the Kingdom life. When you take the time with them and they feel heard and understood, they will invite their friends. My only word of caution to you... get prepared now for the crowd of kids God is bringing your way; get your volunteers lined up now! Small groups multiply fast! BE prepared and BE excited about what God is going to do through your leadership!

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